Xa iJaji uGeoff Rea yagweba umdlali we-serial grogring uJason Trembath, wathi iingxelo zempembelelo yexhoba zazibuhlungu kakhulu.
Ezi ngxelo, ezikhutshwe kwiStuff, zivela kubafazi abathandathu kwabalishumi elinanye uTrembath awabajonga ezitalatweni zaseHawke's Bay naseRotorua ekupheleni kuka-2017.
Omnye wabafazi uthe “umfanekiso wakhe endilandela kwaye ehlasela umzimba wam ngendlela engafanelekanga ngelixa ndimi ndingenakuzinceda kwaye ndisoyika uya kuhlala ushiya isilonda engqondweni yam,” utshilo.
Uthe akasaziva ekhuselekile eyedwa kwaye “ngelishwa abantu abafana noMnu. Trembath bakhumbuza abafazi abafana nam ukuba kukho abantu ababi phaya”.
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Omnye umfazi owayebaleka xa wayehlaselwa, uthe “ukubaleka akuseyonto yokuzonwabisa ekhululekileyo neyonwabisayo njengoko kwakunjalo ngaphambili” kwaye ukusukela oko wahlaselwa wayenxiba i-alamu yakhe xa ebaleka yedwa.
“Ndizifumana ndijonga ngaphaya kwegxalaba lam ixesha elide ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu undilandelayo,” utshilo.
Omnye, owayeneminyaka eli-17 kuphela ngelo xesha, uthe esi siganeko simchaphazele ukuzithemba kwakhe kwaye wayengasaziva ekhuselekile ukuphuma yedwa.
Wayebaleka nomhlobo wakhe xa uTrembath wabetha waza wathi “angayithandi into yokuba umntu owenze oku ebenokuzama ukuyenza ukuba omnye wethu ebeyedwa”.
“Mna kunye naye nabani na sinelungelo lokuhlala sikhuselekile kuluntu lwethu, nokukwazi ukubaleka okanye ukwenza nayiphi na eminye imisebenzi yokuzonwabisa ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeke ezo meko,” utshilo.
“Ndaqala nokuqhuba imoto ukuya nokubuya emsebenzini xa ndandihlala kwiimitha ezingama-200 kuphela kuba ndandisoyika ukuhamba ngeenyawo. Ndandisoloko ndizibuza, ndizibuza ngempahla endandiyinxiba, ukuba ngandlela ithile yayiyimpazamo yam ukuba enze into ayenzileyo kum,” utshilo.
“Ndaziva ndineentloni ngento eyenzekileyo kwaye ndandingafuni ukuthetha ngayo namntu, kwaye kwanakwizihlandlo ezimbalwa zokuqala apho amapolisa andifowunela khona ndandiziva ndibuhlungu kwaye ndicaphukile,” utshilo.
“Ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke esi siganeko, ndandikuthanda ukuhamba ndedwa kodwa emva koko ndandisoyika ukuhamba, ingakumbi ebusuku,” utshilo.
Uphinde waqiniseka ukuba uza kuhamba yedwa. Uthe unqwenela ukuba ebengoyiki aze ajongane noTrembath.
Ibhinqa elalineminyaka engama-27 ubudala xa lahlaselwayo lathi umntu omncinci kunalo kusenokwenzeka ukuba lifumene esi siganeko sibi kakhulu.
Wayenenkani kwaye oko bekungayi kumchaphazela, kodwa “Andinakukhanyela nangona kunjalo, ukuba ingqondo yam ikhula ngakumbi nanini na xa ndibaleka okanye ndihamba ndedwa”.
UTrembath, oneminyaka engama-30 ubudala, uvele kwiNkundla yeSithili saseNapier ngoLwesihlanu waza wagwetywa iminyaka emihlanu neenyanga ezine entolongweni.
UTrembath uvumile ukuba uhlasele ngokungafanelekanga aba bafazi bali-11, kunye nesinye isityholo sokwenza irekhodi elibonakalayo eliyimfihlo nokusasaza le nkcazelo ngokuthumela kwiphepha le-Facebook leqela leTaradale Cricket Club.
Ijaji kwinyanga ephelileyo likhulule uTrembath noJoshua Pauling, oneminyaka engama-30 ubudala, kwizityholo zokudlwengula lo mfazi, kodwa uPauling wafunyaniswa enetyala lokuba yinxalenye yokwenza irekhodi elibonakalayo eliyimfihlo.
Igqwetha likaTrembath uNicola Graham uthe ulwaphulo-mthetho lwakhe "luphantse lungacaci" kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba lubangelwe yi-methamphetamine kunye nokulutha ngokungcakaza.
IJaji uRea uthe onke amaxhoba kaTrembath afumene iziphumo "ezimangalisayo" kwaye iingxelo zexhoba "zibuhlungu kakhulu", utshilo.
UJaji uRea uthe ukugxeka kwakhe abafazi ezitalatweni kwazisa uloyiko olukhulu kumalungu amaninzi oluntu, ingakumbi abafazi.
Uqaphele ukuba nangona wayezibiza ngokuba likhoboka lotywala, ukungcakaza kunye nephonografi, wayengusomashishini oqhuba kakuhle kunye nomdlali wezemidlalo. Ukutyhola abanye abantu ngezinto “kwakuyinto engacacanga” utshilo.
UTrembath ugwetywe iminyaka emithathu neenyanga ezisithoba entolongweni ngezityholo zokumhlupha kunye nonyaka omnye neenyanga ezisixhenxe ngokuthatha nokusasaza ifoto.
UTrembath wayengumphathi jikelele wabasasazi bokutya beBidfoods ngelo xesha, umdlali wekhilikithi omdala owayedlala kwinqanaba labameli kwaye wayethembisene ukutshata ngelo xesha.
Wayedla ngokubabona abafazi besemotweni yakhe, aze ayipake aze abaleke – nokuba phambi okanye ngasemva kwabo – ebamba amazantsi okanye ii-crotches zabo aze azicinezele, aze aphume ngesantya esiphezulu.
Ngamanye amaxesha wayehlasela abafazi ababini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo kwiiyure ezimbalwa omnye eshiyana. Ngesinye isihlandlo ixhoba lakhe laliqhuba iprem enabantwana. Ngesinye isihlandlo, ixhoba lakhe lalikunye nonyana walo omncinci.
Ixesha lokuthumela: Juni-24-2019